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John M. McLaughlin
07/20/1920 — 09/24/2001
From West, Richland, WA, US | Born in Pitcairn, Pennsylvania
John M. McLaughlin
John Martin McLaughlin, beloved husband, father and grandfather, was born July 20, 1920, in Pitcairn, Pennsylvania to John and Elva McLaughlin and died Sunday, September 23, 2001, at his home in West Richland, Washington.
John was a retired nuclear welding engineer, working for Westinghouse for over 35 years. John rose to the rank of Fellow Engineer, the only man to do so without an engineering degree. He was instrumental in developing welding procedures for the construction of the reactors of nuclear powered vessels including the USS Nautilus and USS Enterprise. He served proudly in the United States Navy during World War II.
John is survived by his wife of 60 years, Betty McLaughlin; daughter, Claudia Klingler of Idaho Falls, Idaho; son, John Curtis McLaughlin of Aiea, Hawaii; daughter, Beth Ann Ostic of Seattle, Washington; grandchildren, Amy Klingler of Hayward, California; and Ryan Klingler of Kirkland, Washington; Lindsay, Julie and Hannah Ostic of Seattle, Washington; sisters, Glenn Baloh, Twila Barnhart and Beverly Schmizzi all of Pittsburg, Pennsylvania.
The family invites friends to a memorial service at Einans Funeral Home
on Friday, September 28, 2001 at 3:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations should be directed to the Red Cross September 11th Victims Fund.
Dear Betty and family–we’re so glad we got to visit with John earlier this month. We’ll surely miss him and the fun of exchanging old time stories of Pitcairn and Idaho Falls. Our deepest sympathy to all.
John and family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you in this time of sorrow. The best sign of friendship is to be there in good and bad times. I’m sorry that I cannot be there personally, but my thoughts are with you.
Brian
The best of friends for nearly 25 years. Lots of visiting–lots of dinnerswhere are we going to eat??lots of conversations–we’re
really going to miss John not being here. We just thank God that we had the opportunity to be his friends.
John, I know how hard it is to lose your father, I lost mine three years ago this month. Believe me, it does get easier. Now, all that comes to mind are good memories. Yes, I miss him still and I’m sure that I always will. Now is the time to grieve, it’s a natural and good thing to experience and then, on our own time-frame, we get on with living and the smile that the memories bring – and those smile will come. Take refuge in the comforting arms of your loving wife and the Grace of our loving Father. Our thoughts are with you. Return safely to these beautiful islands.
My Deepest Sympathy John~
My prayers are with you.
May He Be in Peace.
Fondest Aloha
Wanda
To: John, Donna and the McLaughlin Family,
Wendy and I would like to send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We were deeply sadden by the news of your loss. John-From the stories that you told me about your father, it brought back memories of my father and the good times that we shared. We both lost very good men and I can understand the pain that you are going through at this time. Our sypathies are with you and your family.
Love and Aloha,
Lloyd, Wendy & Shyla Nishikawa
Grandpa I wish I knew what to say right about now. I’m remembering the phone call with you on my birthday just a few days ago and I wished I said more than usual. It’s funny those things you wish you could take back or do over again. All the memories seem to flood my mind now. Nothing but good times. 17 thanksgivings, christmas,easters, and visits. 17 years of love fondly given and never forgotten. Your face is so clear to me in my dreams and remembrances it is hard not to cry. For no time but this have I remembered so much about a person, his life, his stories, and our time together. I will cherish it forever. My Mom always said you should write a book, and I’ll pray everyday that I’ll get a chance to have that book read to me up in heaven with you someday. Keep smiling down on us. We love you….your grandchild, Lindsay
To Claudia and Beth
It’s always been said there’s a special relationship between fathers and daughters. I found this to be very true since my father passed away and left a void in my life. The memories become so significant so enjoy them and know my thoughts will be with you. You’re lucky to have each other!
Kathi
Grandpa was the greatest. I loved his smile, his sense of humor, and especially his personality. I miss him so very much. Grandma, my thoughts and prayers are with you! I love you!
We are very sorry about your sudden loss. You have many years of memories to recall and enjoy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dearest John and Donna,
We are deeply saddened by the news of the passing of your father. We know how very much you loved him and we share in your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. We also know from the stories shared with us over the years, you have many fond memories of your time together and hope these bring you peace and courage during this difficult time.
“He walks with us down quiet paths,and speaks in wind and rain, for the magic power of memory, gives him back to us again.”
With all our love and sympathy, Sal, Julie, Nicholas and Zachary
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We send our support to you for a day of comfort and peace on Friday and glad you’ll be together. We wish you all a safe return to your homes.
With love–Nick and Kathi
John was a man that had a deep devotion for his family and his country.He brought great joy into our lives and we will always cherish his memmory and carry his spirit forward in our hearts. We will never forget his great smile, his patriotic zeal, his love of family and friends, and his extraordinary sense of humor.
John,
Our hearts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Your father will live forever in the thoughts of those he loved.
Barney & Rose-Marie
My wonderful neighbor & friend & fellow gardener who loved tomatoes! With every taste of walnuts I will remember your picking them & riding your cart. Thank you for such memories, God bless and rest in peace. Karen;
John I will miss your golf cart moving softly around our back yard. Thank you for the fond memories of coffee and conversation we enjoyed together. I am sure you have found peace and tranquility. I am sure we will meet again and until then God bless, Howard
Donna called and told me about your father, John. After reading the memorial, it sounds like he was an interesting and kind man – I would have liked to have met him. I know how hard it is to lose a father…he will never be replaced. But I hope time and wonderful memories will lessen the pain of you loss. He lives on in you and your family in so many ways.
Take good care – my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Cindy Cutforth
We are thinking of you and hold you in our prayers.
We will be thinking of you on Friday.
Please have a safe trip home for all of you
Mary and Steve
Uncle John will forever be in our thoughts and hearts. He and Aunt Betty provided much needed support when Glenn, Lynn and Terry lost Woody. The boys cherished the trip and the time spent together. He will be remembered as a man with the greatest sense of humor as well as one that possessed great intellect. To Aunt Betty, Claudia, John and Beth – family is precious and we are here for you in any way that you might need us… words can not express what we really feel – our love, thoughts, and memories are of you all and will hopefully be felt within your hearts at this time.
Love, Lynn and Jacque
Dear John and Family,
Please know that our hearts and thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy.
Love Aunty Thelma, Aunty BG, Naomi, Tina, Carl, CJ & Chucky
Thinking of all my old friends from the days of Level Green. John will be missed, but in the great company of Howard, Jeff, Pete and Rupp. My best to you all. Scott
Dear John, Donna and Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You All and stay strong for each other. Here is a poem for you all: His Journey’s Just Begun..
Don’t think of him as gone away-his journey’s just begun; life holds so many facets–this earth is only one. Just think of him as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years. Think how he must be wishing that we could know, today, how nothing but our sadness can really pass away. And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touched..for nothing loved is ever lost..and he was loved so much. Ellen Brenneman
We love you all very much. Keep the faith and remember God loves you all. Call out to him and he will be there for you. Love and aloha, Luzette, Casey and Rick
Nana sends her love.
Our blessings go to your John Curtis. Believe that God has Put your father in a special place to wait for you.
With love. Robie and Louanna Robeson
Aloha from the bottom of my heart. With fond memories of those shuffling slippers at Laie Bay. Aloha oe til we meet again…
John, Donna and Family,
My heart is deeply sadden with the news of your father’s passing. May God bless and keep you all in the fold of his loving arms. Always remember he never makes a mistake.
Love,
Kay “Georgia Peach”
Dear Beth,
We want you to know that we are both very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. We’re thinking of you and hope that everything gets better soon. Love,
Ashleigh & Ryan
Dear Betty and family…In one of her books, Corrie ten Boom, tells us what death is like for a Christian. “A man and his little boy went over a long narrow bridge. It was over a broad river and the boy said I am afraid. Do you see all that water down there? Give me your hand, the father said. The moment the boy felt his father’s hand, he was not afraid. In the evening they had to go back again, and this time it was pitch dark. Now I am more afraid than this morning, the boy cried. The father took the little boy in his arms. Immediately he fell asleep, to awaken the next day in his own bed. That is what death is like for the Christian. To fall asleep and wake up at home” And so it was for John. He fell asleep and woke up at home. On their 60th anniversary we celebrated with Betty and John at the Olive Garden where John told us about a group of retired friends that he often had breakfast with at MacDonalds. He said the group was called REMEO and that it stood for Retired Old Men Eating Out…It reminds us of his sense of humour and I always enjoyed John’s company. Don Mutch
To John’s Family –
We feel truly blessed to have our wonderful neighbors, Betty and John, these past 11 years. Always ready to visit, share a story, open our house when we locked ourselves out, and provide us with apples, peaches, raspberries, and walnuts from their yard. We always knew when John and Betty were on the move by the daily “honk” from the green van passing by, and the hum of the golf cart bringing John next door for a visit. We’ll miss him so very much. God bless you all. Mark and Janelle
Dear Beth, Kevin & Girls. . .
I was so sorry to hear about your father Beth. After having lost both my parents I
know how difficult it is. I’m sure you and your family have many wonderful memories to
sustain you during this time of healing. I also feel this
may be a time of renewed close
ness with your mom and rest of
your family. I know when I lost my parents my brother and I became much closer.Having Kevin and the girls at your side will give you a lot of comfort as well.
Beth my sincerest wishes be with you and please keep your
wonderful sense of humor alive during the days ahead.
Love and hugs to you all.
Sincerely LouWanna
From the time I was a little boy, Uncle John was my hero! Always going somewhere and doing things that amazed me.
Over the years there was a special fondness that never varied. We rarely got together but Brigitte was finaly able to met Uncle John and Aunt Betty four years ago when we visited them at their home. Brigitte too instantly developed the same fondness as I and we both will greatly miss Uncle John!!
Aloha John,
Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and Donna during this difficult time. We’ll talk to you when you return. Much aloha, Ernie and Pat
May you find peace in your hearts, love in your self, and a joyful curiosity for life. Blessings to you all during this magical transition.
Dear Beth and Family,
I am so sorry to hear this painful news. Your dad was a wonderful person, who loved you very much.
I hope the many memories of your dad will help you through this time of sorrow. You’ve shared so many stories about your dad with me over the years – I feel as if I was there during the famous “bee” incident. And I will always remember the times spent across the table from your dad, playing cards, watching him take trick after trick! “Not through the Iron Duke!” he’d exclaim. He had a wonderful sense of humor, and he bequeathed that to you.
I wish I could be there to hug you and provide support as you did for me with my mom.
My heart goes out to you and your family. In your despair, remember he will be with you, in your heart…always.
Koranne
My sympathy is with you during this time. Hope you will find strentgh during this time of loss. Just know that your fiends are with you, and will help with whatever you may need. Be proud that you were a part of his life, I’m sure he was proud to have been a part of yours.
Betty,
Please accept my sympathy and I will pray for your family as the loss of John is fully realized. I hope the memories grow stronger as the pain subsides. You and John built quite a family tree and the nourishment administered will support you now but I know John is pointing out that tree with great pride as the focal point of his garden on earth. My love and peace to you and your family, please give Beth a hug for me.
Rick
Much love from Gib & Em.
Dad says he will send as Uncle John would say “snail mail” soon.
And as Dad would say, “As aye, the best…”
Jan McLaughlin
Aloha John,
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief. I came across a poem by Helen Steiner Rice that I want to share with you. It is entitled: “God’s
Hand is Always There.”
I am perplexed and often vexed
And sometimes I cry and
sadly sigh,
But do not think, DEAR FATHER ABOVE,
I question YOU or YOUR UNCHANGING LOVE.
It’s just sometimes when I reach out
YOU seem to be nowhere about..
And while I’m sure that You love me still
and I know in my heart that YOU ALWAYS WILL,
Somehow I feel that I cannot reach YOU
And though I get down on my knees and beseech you,
I cannot bring YOU closer to me
And I feel adrift on life’s on life raging sea…
But though I cannot find YOUR
HAND
To lead me on to THE PROMISED LAND,
I still believe with all my being
YOUR HAND IS THERE BEYOND MY SEEING.
I close with a promise from God’s Word Isaiah 40:31
“They who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”
Again, you are in our prayers. Also, don’t hesitate to call if you need to talk. My numbers are 808456-3256 or cell. 255-4312.
In God’s Aloha,
John Vaughn
Rotary Club of Pearl Harbor
John and Donna …
Remember his life with smiles and see him in the sunrise. We are thinking of you with Aloha.
I have fond memories of John as a concerned parent when
we were teenagers at Idaho Falls High School. He always had
a sense of humor and a very friendly and approachable face.
It is with much sadness that I send our heartfelt sympathies
to the entire family. The pain of losing a loved one is great.
God bless you all.
Bobbi and Steve Larsen
To Betty, Beth, Johnny, & Claudia, My deepest sympathies to you all. I’ve thought so much about you all this week. Been there…Done that. I am very grateful for the memories of John’s friendship with my parents. The stories they have told me will forever bring a smile to my face. I will never forget our trip to Cape Cod – and “Alone Again Naturally”! I am so glad we got to visit last summer. I will miss the e-mails and that tremendous sense of humor. All my love, Lori….. Mom too.
Dear Mom and the family, my deepest sympathy go out to all of you. I know
that John will be missed by each and everyone of us but I know be will live on in
our hearts and memories forever. I wish that I could be by your side to
give whatever support I could. Please know that you are all in my thoughts
and prayers on this day and always. John always closed his notes and letters
with: “I love you more than…………., to John I will miss him more than, fishing
with him in Box Canyon or having him teach me how to weld. He was a great man!
John:
ON behalf of all your friends at the Morning Coffee at McDonalds in Richland I would like to simply say THANKS for being a good friend.
Jerry Molnaa
Roy Palmer
Lloyd Chalcraft
Gilbert Shaw
Jimmmy Norton
Bernard Shaw
Walt Faubian
Fred Strankman
John Perry
Dear Betty & Family,
We were so sorry to hear the news of John’s passsing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss.
We wish we could be there today to celebrate John’s life.
We feel so privileged to be one of John’s friends and to
have shared so many good times with both of you.
John was the only man I have ever known to have the
knowledge to take his engineering and project notes
in shorthand. He was unique in so many ways and will
be truly missed.
With our love and deepest sympathy.
Ken & Harlene Blair
Godfather John,
I send my deepest sympathies and concern. I just heard about the sad news. I wish you safe trip home and all of my blessings.
Nick
Thinking of all of you this past week but especially today. Sending love & sympathy.
Dear Betty, Kevin, Beth, Lindsay, Julie & Hannah;
We are sorry to hear that John has passed away. We know that he is in a wonderful place and that someday you will be reunited again. We send our friendship and love to each of you and ask that the Lord give you peace and comfort during this time.
You are in our thoughts!
Scott, Janet & Aimee Sprenger
To Grandma Betty and Family,
Our sympathy and concern goes out to you at this time of mourning and sadness. I am sorry we cannot be there to help ease your sadness and pain,but please know that you are all in our thoughts-reflecting on the memories we all shared as a family.
Grandpas memory and soul will live on in all of us. Each one of us carries a trait or two of his. All of us have his humor in one way or the other;I believe I picked up on his green thumb and creativity.
Memories about Grandpa I will definatly remember are his ‘indian burns’,early morning coffee at McDonalds,latch hook rugs,his unique jewlery,walnuts,’Kabota’ rides and banty chickensjust to name a few!!!
To Grandpa and the family he leaves behind to carry on his name and traits-Love you and Miss you-Amy and Rich
Dear McLaughlins
I am sorry to hear of John’s death. Beth and I were such good friends growing up. I sure spent alot of time at the McLauglins house!
I remember your dad loved to listen to music. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Tara and family
Dear John,
We just found out from Donna about your Dad. We send our deep condolences to you and your family. He must have been a wonderful person and it shows in you. May your memories bring cheer to your heart in the times ahead.
Fondly, Scotti & Marsha
Dear Beth and family, We were so sorry to hear of the passing away of your father. For many years you told me wonderful and humerous stories about your Dad. I know he was truly loved and will be sincerely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. The Kiefners
Beth Dian and I just want to say how sorry we are about your and your families loss. I lost my Mom and Dad this past year and words cannot express the feeling. Just know our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family Our Love goes to you all. Larry and Dian Olson
We are so sorry to hear of John’s passing away. Our thoughts are with you and may it help ease the pain to know we care.
The John McLaughlin we knew was a very gentle, caring and loving man. He loved his family dearly and showed it with his actions. He adored his grandchildren and would hold them and sing to them by the hour when they were babies.
We played Spades and Hearts with John. His humor and witty expressions added much fun to the games.
John was a gifted man. He had a great singing voice. He also did needlepoint.
He made the best tomato juice which he would share with us.
We were fortunate to have known John for 23 years.
We will miss him.
We share in your sorrow and loss of your husband, father and grandfather. He was a quite a character and the best stories from our dad always included John. Do you know the one about him walking out of a shoe store one day with a new pair on his feet and the old pair left there? Howd loved your dad more than his own brother. May memories ease your pain. Love to all of you, Carole
Beth,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time of sorrow. I’m sure he was proud of you and your family and all that you have done for your community. In sympathy,the Rossis
Beth and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear that your dad has passed away. Please know that our thoughts and our prayers are with you and your loved ones.
Scot & Traci
Our blessings go to your John Curtis. Believe that God has put your father in a special place to wait for you.
With love. Robie and Louanna Robeson
Robie and Louanna Robeson
Aloha John,
Our warmest sympathies are with you. Lean on those around you for that extra support we all need from time to time.
Hang in there,
Thomas Davis
Dear Betty and family–we’re so glad we got to visit with John earlier this month. We’ll surely miss him and the fun of exchanging old time stories of Pitcairn and Idaho Falls. Our deepest sympathy to all.
John and family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you in this time of sorrow. The best sign of friendship is to be there in good and bad times. I’m sorry that I cannot be there personally, but my thoughts are with you.
Brian
The best of friends for nearly 25 years. Lots of visiting–lots of dinnerswhere are we going to eat??lots of conversations–we’re
really going to miss John not being here. We just thank God that we had the opportunity to be his friends.
John, I know how hard it is to lose your father, I lost mine three years ago this month. Believe me, it does get easier. Now, all that comes to mind are good memories. Yes, I miss him still and I’m sure that I always will. Now is the time to grieve, it’s a natural and good thing to experience and then, on our own time-frame, we get on with living and the smile that the memories bring – and those smile will come. Take refuge in the comforting arms of your loving wife and the Grace of our loving Father. Our thoughts are with you. Return safely to these beautiful islands.
My Deepest Sympathy John~
My prayers are with you.
May He Be in Peace.
Fondest Aloha
Wanda
To: John, Donna and the McLaughlin Family,
Wendy and I would like to send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We were deeply sadden by the news of your loss. John-From the stories that you told me about your father, it brought back memories of my father and the good times that we shared. We both lost very good men and I can understand the pain that you are going through at this time. Our sypathies are with you and your family.
Love and Aloha,
Lloyd, Wendy & Shyla Nishikawa
Grandpa I wish I knew what to say right about now. I’m remembering the phone call with you on my birthday just a few days ago and I wished I said more than usual. It’s funny those things you wish you could take back or do over again. All the memories seem to flood my mind now. Nothing but good times. 17 thanksgivings, christmas,easters, and visits. 17 years of love fondly given and never forgotten. Your face is so clear to me in my dreams and remembrances it is hard not to cry. For no time but this have I remembered so much about a person, his life, his stories, and our time together. I will cherish it forever. My Mom always said you should write a book, and I’ll pray everyday that I’ll get a chance to have that book read to me up in heaven with you someday. Keep smiling down on us. We love you….your grandchild, Lindsay
To Claudia and Beth
It’s always been said there’s a special relationship between fathers and daughters. I found this to be very true since my father passed away and left a void in my life. The memories become so significant so enjoy them and know my thoughts will be with you. You’re lucky to have each other!
Kathi
Grandpa was the greatest. I loved his smile, his sense of humor, and especially his personality. I miss him so very much. Grandma, my thoughts and prayers are with you! I love you!
We are very sorry about your sudden loss. You have many years of memories to recall and enjoy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dearest John and Donna,
We are deeply saddened by the news of the passing of your father. We know how very much you loved him and we share in your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. We also know from the stories shared with us over the years, you have many fond memories of your time together and hope these bring you peace and courage during this difficult time.
“He walks with us down quiet paths,and speaks in wind and rain, for the magic power of memory, gives him back to us again.”
With all our love and sympathy, Sal, Julie, Nicholas and Zachary
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We send our support to you for a day of comfort and peace on Friday and glad you’ll be together. We wish you all a safe return to your homes.
With love–Nick and Kathi
John was a man that had a deep devotion for his family and his country.He brought great joy into our lives and we will always cherish his memmory and carry his spirit forward in our hearts. We will never forget his great smile, his patriotic zeal, his love of family and friends, and his extraordinary sense of humor.
John,
Our hearts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Your father will live forever in the thoughts of those he loved.
Barney & Rose-Marie
My wonderful neighbor & friend & fellow gardener who loved tomatoes! With every taste of walnuts I will remember your picking them & riding your cart. Thank you for such memories, God bless and rest in peace. Karen;
John I will miss your golf cart moving softly around our back yard. Thank you for the fond memories of coffee and conversation we enjoyed together. I am sure you have found peace and tranquility. I am sure we will meet again and until then God bless, Howard
Donna called and told me about your father, John. After reading the memorial, it sounds like he was an interesting and kind man – I would have liked to have met him. I know how hard it is to lose a father…he will never be replaced. But I hope time and wonderful memories will lessen the pain of you loss. He lives on in you and your family in so many ways.
Take good care – my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Cindy Cutforth
We are thinking of you and hold you in our prayers.
We will be thinking of you on Friday.
Please have a safe trip home for all of you
Mary and Steve
Uncle John will forever be in our thoughts and hearts. He and Aunt Betty provided much needed support when Glenn, Lynn and Terry lost Woody. The boys cherished the trip and the time spent together. He will be remembered as a man with the greatest sense of humor as well as one that possessed great intellect. To Aunt Betty, Claudia, John and Beth – family is precious and we are here for you in any way that you might need us… words can not express what we really feel – our love, thoughts, and memories are of you all and will hopefully be felt within your hearts at this time.
Love, Lynn and Jacque
Dear John and Family,
Please know that our hearts and thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy.
Love Aunty Thelma, Aunty BG, Naomi, Tina, Carl, CJ & Chucky
Thinking of all my old friends from the days of Level Green. John will be missed, but in the great company of Howard, Jeff, Pete and Rupp. My best to you all. Scott
Dear John, Donna and Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You All and stay strong for each other. Here is a poem for you all: His Journey’s Just Begun..
Don’t think of him as gone away-his journey’s just begun; life holds so many facets–this earth is only one. Just think of him as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years. Think how he must be wishing that we could know, today, how nothing but our sadness can really pass away. And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touched..for nothing loved is ever lost..and he was loved so much. Ellen Brenneman
We love you all very much. Keep the faith and remember God loves you all. Call out to him and he will be there for you. Love and aloha, Luzette, Casey and Rick
Nana sends her love.
Our blessings go to your John Curtis. Believe that God has Put your father in a special place to wait for you.
With love. Robie and Louanna Robeson
Aloha from the bottom of my heart. With fond memories of those shuffling slippers at Laie Bay. Aloha oe til we meet again…
John, Donna and Family,
My heart is deeply sadden with the news of your father’s passing. May God bless and keep you all in the fold of his loving arms. Always remember he never makes a mistake.
Love,
Kay “Georgia Peach”
Dear Beth,
We want you to know that we are both very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. We’re thinking of you and hope that everything gets better soon. Love,
Ashleigh & Ryan
Dear Betty and family…In one of her books, Corrie ten Boom, tells us what death is like for a Christian. “A man and his little boy went over a long narrow bridge. It was over a broad river and the boy said I am afraid. Do you see all that water down there? Give me your hand, the father said. The moment the boy felt his father’s hand, he was not afraid. In the evening they had to go back again, and this time it was pitch dark. Now I am more afraid than this morning, the boy cried. The father took the little boy in his arms. Immediately he fell asleep, to awaken the next day in his own bed. That is what death is like for the Christian. To fall asleep and wake up at home” And so it was for John. He fell asleep and woke up at home. On their 60th anniversary we celebrated with Betty and John at the Olive Garden where John told us about a group of retired friends that he often had breakfast with at MacDonalds. He said the group was called REMEO and that it stood for Retired Old Men Eating Out…It reminds us of his sense of humour and I always enjoyed John’s company. Don Mutch
To John’s Family –
We feel truly blessed to have our wonderful neighbors, Betty and John, these past 11 years. Always ready to visit, share a story, open our house when we locked ourselves out, and provide us with apples, peaches, raspberries, and walnuts from their yard. We always knew when John and Betty were on the move by the daily “honk” from the green van passing by, and the hum of the golf cart bringing John next door for a visit. We’ll miss him so very much. God bless you all. Mark and Janelle
Dear Beth, Kevin & Girls. . .
I was so sorry to hear about your father Beth. After having lost both my parents I
know how difficult it is. I’m sure you and your family have many wonderful memories to
sustain you during this time of healing. I also feel this
may be a time of renewed close
ness with your mom and rest of
your family. I know when I lost my parents my brother and I became much closer.Having Kevin and the girls at your side will give you a lot of comfort as well.
Beth my sincerest wishes be with you and please keep your
wonderful sense of humor alive during the days ahead.
Love and hugs to you all.
Sincerely LouWanna
From the time I was a little boy, Uncle John was my hero! Always going somewhere and doing things that amazed me.
Over the years there was a special fondness that never varied. We rarely got together but Brigitte was finaly able to met Uncle John and Aunt Betty four years ago when we visited them at their home. Brigitte too instantly developed the same fondness as I and we both will greatly miss Uncle John!!
Aloha John,
Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and Donna during this difficult time. We’ll talk to you when you return. Much aloha, Ernie and Pat
May you find peace in your hearts, love in your self, and a joyful curiosity for life. Blessings to you all during this magical transition.
Dear Beth and Family,
I am so sorry to hear this painful news. Your dad was a wonderful person, who loved you very much.
I hope the many memories of your dad will help you through this time of sorrow. You’ve shared so many stories about your dad with me over the years – I feel as if I was there during the famous “bee” incident. And I will always remember the times spent across the table from your dad, playing cards, watching him take trick after trick! “Not through the Iron Duke!” he’d exclaim. He had a wonderful sense of humor, and he bequeathed that to you.
I wish I could be there to hug you and provide support as you did for me with my mom.
My heart goes out to you and your family. In your despair, remember he will be with you, in your heart…always.
Koranne
My sympathy is with you during this time. Hope you will find strentgh during this time of loss. Just know that your fiends are with you, and will help with whatever you may need. Be proud that you were a part of his life, I’m sure he was proud to have been a part of yours.
Betty,
Please accept my sympathy and I will pray for your family as the loss of John is fully realized. I hope the memories grow stronger as the pain subsides. You and John built quite a family tree and the nourishment administered will support you now but I know John is pointing out that tree with great pride as the focal point of his garden on earth. My love and peace to you and your family, please give Beth a hug for me.
Rick
Much love from Gib & Em.
Dad says he will send as Uncle John would say “snail mail” soon.
And as Dad would say, “As aye, the best…”
Jan McLaughlin
Aloha John,
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of grief. I came across a poem by Helen Steiner Rice that I want to share with you. It is entitled: “God’s
Hand is Always There.”
I am perplexed and often vexed
And sometimes I cry and
sadly sigh,
But do not think, DEAR FATHER ABOVE,
I question YOU or YOUR UNCHANGING LOVE.
It’s just sometimes when I reach out
YOU seem to be nowhere about..
And while I’m sure that You love me still
and I know in my heart that YOU ALWAYS WILL,
Somehow I feel that I cannot reach YOU
And though I get down on my knees and beseech you,
I cannot bring YOU closer to me
And I feel adrift on life’s on life raging sea…
But though I cannot find YOUR
HAND
To lead me on to THE PROMISED LAND,
I still believe with all my being
YOUR HAND IS THERE BEYOND MY SEEING.
I close with a promise from God’s Word Isaiah 40:31
“They who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”
Again, you are in our prayers. Also, don’t hesitate to call if you need to talk. My numbers are 808456-3256 or cell. 255-4312.
In God’s Aloha,
John Vaughn
Rotary Club of Pearl Harbor
John and Donna …
Remember his life with smiles and see him in the sunrise. We are thinking of you with Aloha.
I have fond memories of John as a concerned parent when
we were teenagers at Idaho Falls High School. He always had
a sense of humor and a very friendly and approachable face.
It is with much sadness that I send our heartfelt sympathies
to the entire family. The pain of losing a loved one is great.
God bless you all.
Bobbi and Steve Larsen
To Betty, Beth, Johnny, & Claudia, My deepest sympathies to you all. I’ve thought so much about you all this week. Been there…Done that. I am very grateful for the memories of John’s friendship with my parents. The stories they have told me will forever bring a smile to my face. I will never forget our trip to Cape Cod – and “Alone Again Naturally”! I am so glad we got to visit last summer. I will miss the e-mails and that tremendous sense of humor. All my love, Lori….. Mom too.
Dear Mom and the family, my deepest sympathy go out to all of you. I know
that John will be missed by each and everyone of us but I know be will live on in
our hearts and memories forever. I wish that I could be by your side to
give whatever support I could. Please know that you are all in my thoughts
and prayers on this day and always. John always closed his notes and letters
with: “I love you more than…………., to John I will miss him more than, fishing
with him in Box Canyon or having him teach me how to weld. He was a great man!
John:
ON behalf of all your friends at the Morning Coffee at McDonalds in Richland I would like to simply say THANKS for being a good friend.
Jerry Molnaa
Roy Palmer
Lloyd Chalcraft
Gilbert Shaw
Jimmmy Norton
Bernard Shaw
Walt Faubian
Fred Strankman
John Perry
Dear Betty & Family,
We were so sorry to hear the news of John’s passsing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss.
We wish we could be there today to celebrate John’s life.
We feel so privileged to be one of John’s friends and to
have shared so many good times with both of you.
John was the only man I have ever known to have the
knowledge to take his engineering and project notes
in shorthand. He was unique in so many ways and will
be truly missed.
With our love and deepest sympathy.
Ken & Harlene Blair
Godfather John,
I send my deepest sympathies and concern. I just heard about the sad news. I wish you safe trip home and all of my blessings.
Nick
Thinking of all of you this past week but especially today. Sending love & sympathy.
Dear Betty, Kevin, Beth, Lindsay, Julie & Hannah;
We are sorry to hear that John has passed away. We know that he is in a wonderful place and that someday you will be reunited again. We send our friendship and love to each of you and ask that the Lord give you peace and comfort during this time.
You are in our thoughts!
Scott, Janet & Aimee Sprenger
To Grandma Betty and Family,
Our sympathy and concern goes out to you at this time of mourning and sadness. I am sorry we cannot be there to help ease your sadness and pain,but please know that you are all in our thoughts-reflecting on the memories we all shared as a family.
Grandpas memory and soul will live on in all of us. Each one of us carries a trait or two of his. All of us have his humor in one way or the other;I believe I picked up on his green thumb and creativity.
Memories about Grandpa I will definatly remember are his ‘indian burns’,early morning coffee at McDonalds,latch hook rugs,his unique jewlery,walnuts,’Kabota’ rides and banty chickensjust to name a few!!!
To Grandpa and the family he leaves behind to carry on his name and traits-Love you and Miss you-Amy and Rich
Dear McLaughlins
I am sorry to hear of John’s death. Beth and I were such good friends growing up. I sure spent alot of time at the McLauglins house!
I remember your dad loved to listen to music. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Tara and family
Dear John,
We just found out from Donna about your Dad. We send our deep condolences to you and your family. He must have been a wonderful person and it shows in you. May your memories bring cheer to your heart in the times ahead.
Fondly, Scotti & Marsha
Dear Beth and family, We were so sorry to hear of the passing away of your father. For many years you told me wonderful and humerous stories about your Dad. I know he was truly loved and will be sincerely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. The Kiefners
Beth Dian and I just want to say how sorry we are about your and your families loss. I lost my Mom and Dad this past year and words cannot express the feeling. Just know our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family Our Love goes to you all. Larry and Dian Olson
We are so sorry to hear of John’s passing away. Our thoughts are with you and may it help ease the pain to know we care.
The John McLaughlin we knew was a very gentle, caring and loving man. He loved his family dearly and showed it with his actions. He adored his grandchildren and would hold them and sing to them by the hour when they were babies.
We played Spades and Hearts with John. His humor and witty expressions added much fun to the games.
John was a gifted man. He had a great singing voice. He also did needlepoint.
He made the best tomato juice which he would share with us.
We were fortunate to have known John for 23 years.
We will miss him.
We share in your sorrow and loss of your husband, father and grandfather. He was a quite a character and the best stories from our dad always included John. Do you know the one about him walking out of a shoe store one day with a new pair on his feet and the old pair left there? Howd loved your dad more than his own brother. May memories ease your pain. Love to all of you, Carole
Beth,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time of sorrow. I’m sure he was proud of you and your family and all that you have done for your community. In sympathy,the Rossis
Beth and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear that your dad has passed away. Please know that our thoughts and our prayers are with you and your loved ones.
Scot & Traci
Our blessings go to your John Curtis. Believe that God has put your father in a special place to wait for you.
With love. Robie and Louanna Robeson
Robie and Louanna Robeson
Aloha John,
Our warmest sympathies are with you. Lean on those around you for that extra support we all need from time to time.
Hang in there,
Thomas Davis
John and Donna and family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
I was proud to be a friend of John’s and offer my perwonal sympathy to Betty.
to my friend john. My prayers are with you
Dearest John and Donna, We are so very sad for you and the family to hear of the loss of your Dad. We are thinking of you and love you both. With warmest Aloha…
Uncle John and Aunt Betty attended the McLaughlin reunion at Bev’s home in July, of 2000. My Mother, Jean, his sister, was still alive then and I’m so glad that they all had that time together. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Ernie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Much love,
The Duenkel Family
You can often take the measure of the man by his children. I know he was a good man with a good heart because I know his son John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Beth,
I am so sorry. Alan and I are keeping you and your family in our prayers.
Diane and Alan Sebring
May peace be with you, now and always.
Guestbook for
John M. McLaughlin